There are many approaches one can take when coming into the BDSM scene. I have always been of the mindset that BDSM allows us to connect, appreciate and understand our darker desires. BDSM enables us to play with a part of our mind which is often untouched and unknown by those around us. The role of a Pro Domme is to understand the underlying needs of those who serve you, we all have kinks, but it is my job to guide those who submit.
I often tell people around Me I am a disciplinary consultant. Those who obey, serve and submit to Me, know I am one who finds pleasure in seeing you surrender all control, abandoning all outside objectives and embracing the power I hold. My approach to BDSM is that of an open mind. There is no kink, fantasy, sensation or experience that I am puzzled by. I take pride in knowing I have an evolved idea of what desires can ride in your mind, unknown and misunderstood by others. To understand the rule of discipline, eroticism, temptation, and pain is to understand what it means to be a Dominatrix.
My subs/bottoms/sissies/ and slaves often tell Me I can understand their desires without falsehood or scrutiny. My approach to BDSM and Domination comes judgment-free which connects the hidden yet tempting desires with the body. There are many ways in which one can be a Dominatrix, but I find the most valuable approach is to explore the missing link between our fantasies and our reality.