Mistress Sabine has compiled a list of answers and information to common questions and inquiries. If you do not find the specific information you are looking for, please submit your question in the form provided at the bottom of the page. Check back often as answers to new questions are frequently added.

I want to see you, how can I make this happen?

Sabine’s audience is carefully curated – She is selective about who She will dominate, and who She gives Her time to. Follow the steps below to discover how you can procure Her companionship, and dive into your hunger for Her dominance.

To secure a session with Sabine follow the steps below:

  1. Fill out the apply to serve form. This form is intended to demonstrate your interests, and if you are a good fit for Sabine’s company. Click here to be redirected to the apply to serve page.
  2. Wait for a response from Sabine’s assistant Chloe. If you do not hear back from Chloe within 72 hours, Sabine has decided you are not suitable for Her domination.
  3. If Sabine decides you can serve Her, Chloe will send you an email asking for dates and times you are available to have a session.

Where does Mistress Sabine hold live session?

Mistress Sabine is based out of Portland, Oregon.

If you have a live session with Mistress Sabine you will go to Her private Reformatory unless She is on tour or you fly Her to your destination. Click here for more information.

If you are not able to come to Portland, Oregon for a live session or cannot fly the Mistress to you, consider serving Her through one of Her online slave training course. Click here for more information.

I am not comfortable using my credit card to pay for the deposits, what can I do instead?

If you are uncomfrtable paying your session deposit online you can complete your transaction using PayPal at checkout.


How do I confirm our session?

YOU must contact Sabine to reconfirm your session 24 hours beforehand. Check your email for the phone number you must text to confirm your session. Failure to reach out to Sabine and confirm your session will result in the termination of your session.

As one who submits to Sabine, it is your responsibility and honor to confirm a session with your Mistress.

Do you sell clips/chat on the phone with submissives?

At the moment Sabine does not sell clips online or hold phone sessions. Sabine is careful in procuring those who wish to submit in person. If you are not able to submit to Sabine in person, consider online slave training. This will enable those who wish to submit but are limited in their ability to submit to have contact and regular online training with Sabine.

If you lust for a taste of Sabine, browse Her shop where you can find, panties, socks, stockings, toys, and other personal essence from Sabine.

Mistress, it has been more than 72 hours and I haven't heard from you.

Sabine is selective. If you do not hear from Her assistant Chloe within 72 hours, Sabine has decided you are not suitable for Her company. If you feel you are a good fir for Sabine’s domination and have not heard back from her, send a polite and short email to Chloe at for clarification. Sabine recieves many emails, yours might have been missed by mistake.

Do you have house slaves?

Although Sabine loves, adores, and cherishes Her slaves, She does not find gratification in having slaves who serve Her outside of a live session. If you wish to serve Sabine in a domestic manner, you must submit mentally, physically, and financially. Visit Sabine’s ‘Tribute’ page to better understand your financial obligations as a slave.

I have never been with a Dominatrix before, what can I expect?

Sabine welcomes those who have not submitted to a Domme before. Your submission to Her acts of pleasure and pain must be welcomed with the full consent and knowledge that you have given yourself to Her in every way. Hard limits will be discussed beforehand, but your body is Hers once you step through Her doors.

The touching of Her body in any way is forbidden. Remember – you are Her possession, not the other way around. Review Sabine’s list of ‘interests’ to better understand Her curious pleasures.

Mistress, can you describe yourself?

Sabine’s experiences in the D/s scene has allowed Her to take Her passion and turn it into an opportunity to teach, guide, and play with other like-minded individuals. Sabine’s worldly upbringing allows Her to connect with individuals from all cultures and backgrounds. She is a connoisseur of lifes little luxuries and finds Her guilty pleasures take form in international travel – savoring the flavors of a rare bottle of wine, and exploring new untested desires.

Height: 5’2 barefoot Panties: s/m Eye color: Green
Heel size: 6.5 US Shoe size: 7 Hair color: Dark Blonde
Dress size: 3/4US Waist: 26 Age: Late 20’s



How do you handle hard/soft limits, and safe words?

Your intake form will ask you about your hard/soft limits. Sabine takes your safety and consent very seriously. Although, She will bring you to your edge, She will never put you in serious danger. Before your session starts with Sabine, you will go over your hard and soft limits again in person.

Safe words and other safety information will be sent to you along with your intake form. Red and yellow/mercy are the most common safe words, and unless specified otherwise, will always be used. Red meaning, “this is not pleasurable, stop the immediately” and yellow/mercy meaning, “I am feeling a bit uncomfortable, slow down, or move on”. If you are gagged, or otherwise unable to communicate verbally, a ball, or other object will be used in place of the safe words. All of this will be reiterated at the beginning of your session with Sabine.

How should I prepare for our time together?

  1. Read Sabine’s website in its entirety.
  2. Re-read the session information page which was sent to your email after your ‘apply to serve’ form was filled out.
  3. Present your CLEAN body to Sabine. If you do not have time to shower up before your session, Sabine will provide you with a shower and all the tools you need to clean up. Inform Sabine of your need to shower BEFORE your session begins. Those who do not practice good hygiene will be asked to take a shower if Sabine feels you are not up to Her standards. This includes a clean ass, a shaved pubic area, clean breath and no body odor.

Do you do role play?

While Sabine enjoys role play, She will not amuse the idea of reading a script you provide. Sabine has a great imagination and will ensure you are tortured, restrained, examined, and humiliated properly.

What if I am running late?

If you are running late, contact Sabine’s assistant Chloe by text (the phone number can be found in the email sent to you after your ‘apply to serve’ submission) as soon as you know you will be tardy. If you are more than 15 minutes late and have not notified Chloe, your session will be canceled and you will be required to send a deposit to the Mistress if you wish to see her in the future.

I want to buy you something, what should I get?

Mistress Sabine enjoys those who show their admiration for Her skills and talent through small tokens of appreciation. Visit Her ‘Wishlist‘ page for gift ideas. 

How much does a session cost?

Click here to learn more about tributes.

I can't serve you in a live session, how can I serve you instead?

Mistress Sabine understands not all who wish to serve Her in a live session can. For those who wish to serve Mistress Sabine but are inhibited by distance, finances or other circumstances, consider enrolling in one of Her online slave training courses.

Click here for more information.

What if I need to cancel our session?

Sabine asks you to contact Her assistant Chloe via email ( if you need to cancel. If you cancel 0-36 hours before your session you will be asked to send a tribute as penance for your cancelation. If you cancel on Sabine more than 2 times you will no longer be able to serve Her.

What are your hours?

Sabine works Monday-Saturday 11:00am-9:00 pm, with the exception of overnights and travel packages.

How should I address you?

You will address Sabine as, “Mistress” or “Miss Sabine”. If you do not address Sabine with one of the appropriate names you will be punished. It is in your best interest to obey your Mistress immediately.

What kind of people do you allow to submit?

Those who have a genuine, curious and honest interest in exploring their submissive, masochistic and/or fetishist side may see Sabine. Sabine also enjoys topping service bottoms who are looking to indulge in a power exchange. Those who do not exude a sincere desire to amuse, please, serve, obey, and surrender control to Sabine must look elsewhere.

To serve Sabine you must understand She is not a provider/escort and will only render you useless through Her tortures and torments on your body as a dominatrix.

Men, women, couples, and anyone else wanting a sincere and bespoke BDSM experience may submit an “apply to serve” form. 

Do you hate men?

Sabine does not hate men. If you fear all Domme’s hate men, consider this: submission and possession should be based upon mutual respect and understanding. Sabine’s submissive’s are Her prized possession. Just like any owner, She cherishes their submission and will always proceed with the knowledge that those who serve Her are there because they respect, admire and cherish Her. In return, Sabine will keep those who submit to Her in high standing.

How qualified are you to be a Dominatrix?

Sabine has been mentored by well known Domme since 2012. Her mentor has taught Her many skills which She will use on you to prove your submission. In addition to Her mentorship, Sabine is a lifestyle BDSM player and understands all the sensations, emotions, desires and feelings that might arise during your time together. Sabine is well versed in what it is like to submit and understands your act of submission is to be honored with complete respect.

Sabine takes pride in Her lifestyle as a Dominatrix and finds the balance of a D/s relationship to be irresistible.

How can I best serve you Mistress?

Those who can procure a live session with Sabine will find their submission to Her power to be fulfilling, connective and evocative. While you are in Her presence, understand your place, understand your submission and understand Her power over you.

If you are not able to serve Sabine in person, you can indulge your imagination and purchase a vile of Her spit, toys, panties and other goodies found here. For those who desire a more steady connection with Sabine, consider enrolling in St. Jack’s Reformatory for Wayward boys (coming soon)

For those looking to connect with someone who understands the underlying desires of your fetish, consider a “chat with Sabine” session. Click here for more information.

What is St. Jack's Reformatory like Mistress?

Sabine’s private Reformatory is a well equipped, discreet, and safe play space for all your darkest desires. She will always ensure it is clean and ready for your visit. Click here for photos and other information about Sabine’s domain.

St. Jacks Reformatory is open to rent for those wanting to explore and play with their partner in a safe, well equipped space. More information can be found at

How do you clean your toys/ tables and other goodies?

Sanitation is paramount in ensuring yours and Sabine’s safety. All items that touch any ones body are sanitized through the method most appropriate for the material. Every item is sanitized before being used on another human.

Where do your travels take you?

I most often times find myself in the following locations:


Seattle, Washington Washington DC New York, New York
California London, England France
Germany Italy Dubai

Do you take same day appointments?

No. Sabine will not entertain the idea of curating your submission without proper notice. It is recommended you request your appointment 3-4 days before your desired submission.

Will you come to my location?

Depends. For those who have submitted themselves to Sabine in the past, She may consider coming to your home, hotel or other pre planned location. For those who have not submitted to Sabine before, no, She will not travel to your hotel or other desired location.

For encounters outside of Portland,Oregon Sabine will always rent a well appointed dungeon for your time together. Email for more details if you are interested in playing internationally or in a US city outside of Portland, Oregon. Special travel arrangements can be made for those who are familiar with relinquishing themselves to Sabine.

New Question Form

Use this form to submit a questions to the Mistress. Sabine’s assistant Chloe will vet any submissions before providing it for Sabine’s consideration.